How does a girl chat is very cold?你知道为什么吗？
2022-08-09 15:47:37 2
Recently, some people often asked: I have been talking to a girl. I have a chat every day, I am very happy at night, but I don't know why, the recent girl suddenly began to become cold, take the initiative to talk to her chat. I feel obvious perfunctory, I want to ask for a question before talking, I am very cold, and what is going on? Do you know the reason?
First, your warm feedback value is too low.
In the face of the girl - I am good to you, you are good to me, this is called "pay". I am good to you, you have no feedback, I am also good to you, you still have no time, this is called "no skin without face". When a girl is in your body, I have to have a warm feedback for a long time.她该干什么？ The answer is simple, timely stop loss, transfer target.
You must know that a girl is willing to chat with you, very clearly - at least to talk to you, two people have a common topic. This is the performance of your girl, but it doesn't mean that "she likes you like it is not you can't."
So why is a girl talking very well? A very critical point - that is the enthusiasm of you is too low.
She chats with you every day, but you just talk about something in life, but never talk about the topic;
Girls have a variety of suggestions, and you can perform like wood;
Girls can't wait, I want to know what you think, but you have never active ...
You don't understand "what she thinks is" now? It is because - although you like this girl, but it is too low to give her, all the signals released. You are in confusion that "the girl is very good, I'm very cold" and the girl thinks is "This boys have never refused to take the initiative, do you take me as a spare tire? Run!"
Second, your ability is too low.
The girl talks very well, and there is a more profound reason - your ability is too low. What is the availability?
For a simple example:
Girl: Pay more attention to rest, go to bed early!晚安！
You: Well.
This is a kind of performance, which will make girls feel that "this boys should have no interest in me, I don't think that her reaction is so cold," the girl will naturally be slowly cold.
Take another example:
Girl: Pay more attention to rest, go to bed early!晚安！
You: Well, good night ~ You have to rest early!
In the eyes of the girl, this is a high performance. It will not be self-reliant, "It seems that he understands my hint. Is this reaction also have a feeling? We have the success of our success. not very big?"
Similar to this, more examples are mostly countless:
1 When you meet, take the initiative to help the girl to open the door.
2 When I date, take the initiative to ask girls "What kind of boys do you like ~"
3 give each other a close nickname specially in the other party
4 When the girl moved home, he took the initiative to help.
5 When I went on the night, I quietly took the woman's safe.
6 more in a friend circle and girls, occasionally boost her clothes aesthetics
7 ............
The purpose of releasing availability is to let the girl know that you really like her, as long as you go to the development of it, you are so late.
Girls talking very well, suddenly cold, no reason, what you need to do is to know that she suddenly refreshed, and then lifted the misunderstanding.
